Love and Caring of Ichise

[Otaku Ichise]

Can an Hikikomori be able to love someone? im starting to have doubts...


Hikikomori (ひきこもり, lit. "pulling away, being confined", i.e. "acute social withdrawal") is a Japanese term to refer to the phenomenon of reclusive individuals who have chosen to withdraw from social life, often seeking extreme degrees of isolation and confinement due to various personal and social factors in their lives. The term hikikomori refers to both the sociological phenomenon in general as well as to individuals belonging to this societal group.

The Japanese Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare defines hikikomori as individuals who refuse to leave their parents' house, and isolate themselves away from society and family in a single room for a period exceeding six months. While the severity of the phenomenon varies depending on the individual, some youths remain in isolation for years, or in rare cases, decades. Often hikikomori start out as school refusals, or toukoukyohi (登校拒否) in Japanese

[ware4me]

Well... we all deserve to be loved, of course it's not easy to find that special person. But don't think it's impossible, no way... life is filled with love, all we need to do is go out and grab a little. :adoration:

Now... it's interesting that you think of yourself as a hikikomori, why do you think of yourself in that position... specially when you are out of home at the moment. :p

BTW, hope you are doing alright in Africa.

[Otaku Ichise]

Ware4me as stated in that quote i started out as school refusal and hated everything in it, i realy am a very close guy (im not joking -.-) man... i would be always being picked on or made fun off, then things keep changing till i left reality for good.

[ware4me]

Awww! I know you have had rough times lately, and I know for experience that life is not as fair as we'd love it to be.

But I also know there are special things and special persons that worth the pain and waste of time!

Don't give up, there is always a brighter side if you look onward! ^.^

[Otaku Ichise]

Ah ok wont give up yet, altough im geting to be a good autocad user i dont have the school complete and wouldnt find a job in my country Portugal, thats why im in Africa for some time yet...

[ware4me]

Oh... education, the key to many doors out there, don't hesitate and try to finish it.

In the meantime, I'm sure you'll learn a lot of stuff while in Africa. That will never be a waste of time, trust me! :D

[Otaku Ichise]

lol i cant go back to school or father would put me working in the worst place :drop: i have to work and keep learn autocad but cant go back to school, im 22 years old.

[ware4me]

Hmm... you can always go back to school... at least that's what I think, now, you must talk to your parents... and negotiate something... but maybe that's something you've done, or that didn't go the way you wanted. >.<

[darkandshadow]

Because I'm violent when people are stupid like that, I usually beat the hell out of those making fun of me. But also, my not caring side completely ignores them because they're freaks taking time out of their "busy" schedule and to go out of their way to attempt to anger me.

Go with the "not caring" side. It keeps you out of trouble, and their shouts of idiocy fall upon deaf ears.
That'll force them to either:

A) Stop
B) Go physical. When it gets here, I like to smile and start smashing skulls in, and then say it was in self defence (although people know me as laid back and don't cause trouble, unless trouble comes after me persistently), so I don't get in a lot of trouble (if any at all).

But this isolation crap? Only emos and weak people do that to themselves. That's life.
Fight back and make your life something you'd be proud of.

[Otaku Ichise]

LOL maybe i became too much soft then :drop:

[darkandshadow]

Possibly. But I wouldn't suggest getting into fights, since it usually leaves you in trouble and not them.
Anyways, just ignore them.

[ware4me]

LOL, no, no violence... be the smart guy! ;)

[Otaku Ichise]

Ah i would never use violence, your forgeting im an hikikomori otaku.

[ware4me]

Hmm... I think i understand what a hikikomori would do.. but you never know :P

[Otaku Ichise]

Violence... never used it.

[aarathi]

In my opinion, they can love someone. I thought that why the government prohibit them from natural lives.

[Otaku Ichise]

I dont want to try love, im always stabed by fate -_- and meh.. no one will like me anyway...

[darkandshadow]

I dont want to try love, im always stabed by fate -_- and meh.. no one will like me anyway...

If you keep going on like that, I will hate you.
...and so will everybody else.

Remember, those who criticize only reflect their
own image of embarassments. So, to those people,
tell them to sit on your middle finger and rotate.

[ware4me]

To be loved... first you need to love yourself... not much, but good enough yo let you love someone else. :)

Hmm... you really need to read that book i told you the other day. :drop:

[zefiris]

what are you people talking about? has Ichise lost his ipod?