Mardy Bum

[Mienubile]

Okay there's this guy whom I really really really like in our class. We kind of had this mutual understanding when we were in first year (of HS) and well, when I left the school---I kind of got mad at him for not stopping me (I would've stayed to continue this sort of relationship with him). Anyway, the last year of our HS life, I came back to study with him...but he's so indifferent.

I still have feelings for him (thus the beginning of the thread) and well, when we had our retreat he kind of told me that he too, still has those feelings for me......but he won't act on it. Na-ah, he says. Well, that's fine by me...but I'm kind of troubled with how biased he is when it comes to me. I mean, I'm the only girl he doesn't talk to in class. He's quite close to the other girls and talks to them but whenever I try to approach him he pushes me away and it kind of...hurts you know.

So erm...comments on this? What do you think should I do? Oh and by the way, you might ask me what I actually want in this relationship so, I'll go ahead and tell you: I just want us to be friends...and yet he can't even give that friendship to me! EVEN AFTER CONFESSING THAT HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR ME. Gah~!

[ware4me]

OMG! Please don't take it personal, but it seems this guy hasn't grown up, and you have. :p

You can't act like a teenager when someone is telling you that kind of stuff.

No need to waste precious time in persons like this... at least that's what 4me thinks. :D

[Mienubile]

ROFL...you have the same statement as my best friend's. xD Thanks for that 'nii-chama...so what the heck am I suppose to do with my feelings? Throw them away or something? =P Is it that easy?

[LittleVexy]

]...so what the heck am I suppose to do with my feelings? Throw them away or something? =P

Keep them.. cherish them.. and learn from them. Life is a journey that each and every one of us have to walk. There will be moments of sadness, but also the moments of happiness.


]Is it that easy?

No. It is never easy.

[Mienubile]

WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH...what the hell am I suppose to do with my feelings?


Oh and there's this little problem with me: I get jealous easily. I think it's the capital sin that goes with my very life. xD Oh wait just a moment, wasn't envy actually the right term? Hnn...

[ware4me]

As V-chan says, learn from your experiences, and enjoy your youth, it goes faster than we thought. >.<

Now, you don't need to be jealous, specially if you are jealous of guys like the one you refer in the first post.

*Mien needs to find a new love* :smitten:

[Mienubile]

Hnn...me? A new love? LOL. I'm not even sure it's love I've experienced with the said person, no? Hahahahaha. But thanks for listening guys...if the system allows me to rep you already, I'd go on ahead.

[ware4me]

HAHA, no need to rep us for this... happy to read you, that's all! :)

And... a new love is always welcome, specially for an achy breaky heart! :P

[Mienubile]

xD I don't have an achy breaky heart because of love Wareware. It's because he was my friend and just because we had feelings for each other, all of that is lost now.

[ware4me]

Well... that's enough to create an achy breaky heart, no?

Love can be complicated, specially when it is related to best friends. :(

[Mienubile]

Not enough to make me look for another "love" one though.

And oh, he wasn't my bestfriend. In fact we started as enemies---then turned out to be friends---then crushes---then m.u and hnn, I guess he did court me last last last last December and I said yes, but we lasted for 3 months only---I thought, 'cause I had to leave our school and transfer some place else and...well~ we didn't 'end' our relationship but we didn't have any communication so it's considered 'broken' already right? Eeto...and now that I'm back, we gave a statement that it's over but...he's still sooooo untalkative...wait, have I told you he's only like that to me? I wonder what's eating that hunk of lard.

[ware4me]

Well... first, can you use regular font size, little hard to read size=1 fonts :p

Now... what is "m.u and hnn"? :eek:

Now, on topic... enemies can become the best couple you can find, maybe that's why you two developed that kind of attraction.

But now, if there wasn't an explicit statement about your relationship while you were transferring to another place/school, and this guy never tried to contact you, reach you or found you... then I think he is a miserable person. >.<

He doesn't deserve any attention from you, he is pretending you were the one who left the relationship, when it is totally the opposite. Geez, he is a coward who run from you and now he pretends to be better than you by ignoring you during classes.

Such a baby Mien! Get rid of him quickly! :3:

[Mienubile]

H-hai! *bows*

Oh and no, I have a thing for cute things...and small font is considered cute so, =P

[zefiris]

small font hurt my eyes >_>;
I can't read small text very well.

about your issue, i think starting out as an enemy is kind of rough. I wouldn't trust anyone that started out as an enemy. You should be careful.

[ware4me]

:catfight: &#161;Fight, Fight!

Yeah, but you never know where love comes from. :p

[zefiris]

we need more members >_>

[ware4me]

We do... we do! x.x

[senel]

hmmm..... i sorta agree with 4me on this. it seems to be from reading this that he is trying to put the blame on you and well...that deserves a slap in the face or a punch in the gut to him. but i don't think it wise to listen to my advice. i tried to go out with one of my best friends and it ended in the whole "here's a note, read it later". come to think of it, all the rejections i have gotten have been notes o.0.....they can't say it to my face? what am i ugly or something?
well anyways, ya you should try and look for someone else if he is going to act like that.