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    Love and Caring of Ichise

    Can an Hikikomori be able to love someone? im starting to have doubts...

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    Hikikomori (ひきこもり, lit. "pulling away, being confined", i.e. "acute social withdrawal") is a Japanese term to refer to the phenomenon of reclusive individuals who have chosen to withdraw from social life, often seeking extreme degrees of isolation and confinement due to various personal and social factors in their lives. The term hikikomori refers to both the sociological phenomenon in general as well as to individuals belonging to this societal group.

    The Japanese Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare defines hikikomori as individuals who refuse to leave their parents' house, and isolate themselves away from society and family in a single room for a period exceeding six months. While the severity of the phenomenon varies depending on the individual, some youths remain in isolation for years, or in rare cases, decades. Often hikikomori start out as school refusals, or toukoukyohi (登校拒否) in Japanese

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    Well... we all deserve to be loved, of course it's not easy to find that special person. But don't think it's impossible, no way... life is filled with love, all we need to do is go out and grab a little.

    Now... it's interesting that you think of yourself as a hikikomori, why do you think of yourself in that position... specially when you are out of home at the moment.

    BTW, hope you are doing alright in Africa.

    "Sometimes people don't see how much we need them, Until we don't need them anymore..."
    =uu= "Never wear anything that panics the neko."

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    Ware4me as stated in that quote i started out as school refusal and hated everything in it, i realy am a very close guy (im not joking -.-) man... i would be always being picked on or made fun off, then things keep changing till i left reality for good.

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    Awww! I know you have had rough times lately, and I know for experience that life is not as fair as we'd love it to be.

    But I also know there are special things and special persons that worth the pain and waste of time!

    Don't give up, there is always a brighter side if you look onward!

    "Sometimes people don't see how much we need them, Until we don't need them anymore..."
    =uu= "Never wear anything that panics the neko."

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    Ah ok wont give up yet, altough im geting to be a good autocad user i dont have the school complete and wouldnt find a job in my country Portugal, thats why im in Africa for some time yet...

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    Oh... education, the key to many doors out there, don't hesitate and try to finish it.

    In the meantime, I'm sure you'll learn a lot of stuff while in Africa. That will never be a waste of time, trust me!

    "Sometimes people don't see how much we need them, Until we don't need them anymore..."
    =uu= "Never wear anything that panics the neko."

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    lol i cant go back to school or father would put me working in the worst place i have to work and keep learn autocad but cant go back to school, im 22 years old.

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    Hmm... you can always go back to school... at least that's what I think, now, you must talk to your parents... and negotiate something... but maybe that's something you've done, or that didn't go the way you wanted.

    "Sometimes people don't see how much we need them, Until we don't need them anymore..."
    =uu= "Never wear anything that panics the neko."

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    Because I'm violent when people are stupid like that, I usually beat the hell out of those making fun of me. But also, my not caring side completely ignores them because they're freaks taking time out of their "busy" schedule and to go out of their way to attempt to anger me.

    Go with the "not caring" side. It keeps you out of trouble, and their shouts of idiocy fall upon deaf ears.
    That'll force them to either:

    A) Stop
    B) Go physical. When it gets here, I like to smile and start smashing skulls in, and then say it was in self defence (although people know me as laid back and don't cause trouble, unless trouble comes after me persistently), so I don't get in a lot of trouble (if any at all).

    But this isolation crap? Only emos and weak people do that to themselves. That's life.
    Fight back and make your life something you'd be proud of.

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    LOL maybe i became too much soft then

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