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    Help Mardy Bum

    Okay there's this guy whom I really really really like in our class. We kind of had this mutual understanding when we were in first year (of HS) and well, when I left the school---I kind of got mad at him for not stopping me (I would've stayed to continue this sort of relationship with him). Anyway, the last year of our HS life, I came back to study with him...but he's so indifferent.

    I still have feelings for him (thus the beginning of the thread) and well, when we had our retreat he kind of told me that he too, still has those feelings for me......but he won't act on it. Na-ah, he says. Well, that's fine by me...but I'm kind of troubled with how biased he is when it comes to me. I mean, I'm the only girl he doesn't talk to in class. He's quite close to the other girls and talks to them but whenever I try to approach him he pushes me away and it kind of...hurts you know.

    So erm...comments on this? What do you think should I do? Oh and by the way, you might ask me what I actually want in this relationship so, I'll go ahead and tell you: I just want us to be friends...and yet he can't even give that friendship to me! EVEN AFTER CONFESSING THAT HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR ME. Gah~!

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    OMG! Please don't take it personal, but it seems this guy hasn't grown up, and you have.

    You can't act like a teenager when someone is telling you that kind of stuff.

    No need to waste precious time in persons like this... at least that's what 4me thinks.

    "Sometimes people don't see how much we need them, Until we don't need them anymore..."
    =uu= "Never wear anything that panics the neko."

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    ROFL...you have the same statement as my best friend's. xD Thanks for that 'nii-chama...so what the heck am I suppose to do with my feelings? Throw them away or something? =P Is it that easy?

  4. Quote Originally Posted by Mienubile View Post
    ]...so what the heck am I suppose to do with my feelings? Throw them away or something? =P
    Keep them.. cherish them.. and learn from them. Life is a journey that each and every one of us have to walk. There will be moments of sadness, but also the moments of happiness.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mienubile View Post
    ]Is it that easy?
    No. It is never easy.
    :: I'm too ecchi for my pantsu too ecchi for my pantsu... ::

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    WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH...what the hell am I suppose to do with my feelings?


    Oh and there's this little problem with me: I get jealous easily. I think it's the capital sin that goes with my very life. xD Oh wait just a moment, wasn't envy actually the right term? Hnn...

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    As V-chan says, learn from your experiences, and enjoy your youth, it goes faster than we thought.

    Now, you don't need to be jealous, specially if you are jealous of guys like the one you refer in the first post.

    *Mien needs to find a new love*

    "Sometimes people don't see how much we need them, Until we don't need them anymore..."
    =uu= "Never wear anything that panics the neko."

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    Hnn...me? A new love? LOL. I'm not even sure it's love I've experienced with the said person, no? Hahahahaha. But thanks for listening guys...if the system allows me to rep you already, I'd go on ahead.

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    HAHA, no need to rep us for this... happy to read you, that's all!

    And... a new love is always welcome, specially for an achy breaky heart!

    "Sometimes people don't see how much we need them, Until we don't need them anymore..."
    =uu= "Never wear anything that panics the neko."

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    xD I don't have an achy breaky heart because of love Wareware. It's because he was my friend and just because we had feelings for each other, all of that is lost now.

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    Well... that's enough to create an achy breaky heart, no?

    Love can be complicated, specially when it is related to best friends.

    "Sometimes people don't see how much we need them, Until we don't need them anymore..."
    =uu= "Never wear anything that panics the neko."

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